ci: raise the merge queue status check timeout to 360 minutes

[alamb]

Rationale for this change

Same change as apache/datafusion#26293 (see apache/datafusion#26292 for background).

The merge queue evicts PRs whose checks have not reported within 60 minutes (the GitHub default), even when nothing failed and the remaining jobs are only waiting for a runner.

Each eviction discards CI that already passed, requires someone to re-queue the PR by hand, and reruns everything from scratch.

This is now happening in this repo too, for example on #2626: #2626 (comment) All Apache projects share a GitHub runner queue, and it has been saturated for the last few days.

What changes are included in this PR?

Adds a Merge Queue ruleset to .asf.yaml that sets check_response_timeout_minutes: 360.

Here are the current settings

andrewlamb@Andrews-MacBook-Pro-3:~/Software/sqlparser-rs$ gh api graphql -f query='{ repository(owner:"apache", name:"datafusion-sqlparser-rs") {
  mergeQueue(branch:"main") { configuration { checkResponseTimeout } } } }'
{
  "data": {
    "repository": {
      "mergeQueue": {
        "configuration": {
          "checkResponseTimeout": 3600
        }
      }
    }
  }
}

What is the testing strategy for this PR?

gh api graphql -f query='{ repository(owner:"apache", name:"datafusion-sqlparser-rs") {
  mergeQueue(branch:"main") { configuration { checkResponseTimeout } } } }'

Are there any user-facing changes?

No.

Written with assistance from Claude Code.

[alamb]

I'll give it a try and hopefully we can increase our throughput

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 81.16%. Comparing base (dacdbc9) to head (b541c5c).

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